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Hi. My name is Leonard Williams, and I'm an instructor with The GED Academy passGED Study Program. Thanks for sharing your writing and your feedback on the GED Notebook!
Why is it so hard for parents and children to get along? When I was a child, I had countless fights with my parents, and looking back, they seem sadly unnecessary. Still, I learned important life lessons from fighting with my parents. One argument that stands out in my mind took place on Christmas Eve.
The story begins when I had an epiphany. It seemed like a brilliant idea--to me, anyway. I was going to stay up and meet Santa Claus! Then, my parents told me I couldn't. My mother said, "Santa won't come until you're asleep." I cried. I screamed. I yelled! My parents sent me upstairs to bed. I wouldn't see Santa that night.
I lay angrily in my bed before going to sleep. I thought I'd never forgive my parents. What I didn't know was that there was no Santa. My parents just didn't want me to be disappointed. They wanted a good Christmas for all of us.
Eventually, I learned a lot from this fight. I ruined my own Christmas Eve by making my own problem. If I could have just trusted the people who loved me, my mother and father, then I could have had a much happier Christmas. This experience was one step toward becoming a more trusting son.
I guess parents and children will never really get along, but that's not a bad thing. Children are learning who they are, how they should act, and how to relate to their parents. This conflict taught me something about trust, and every argument teaches a child a little something new.
I cannot begin to tell you how much I miss our long talks, since you always help make things clear to me. You are my sounding board--my good advisor. Right now, I want to not so much share my problems as my joys.
I have been teaching writing to my class, and I know it would cheer you to hear about their work. They are traveling on the road to bringing their vibrant personalities out in words. Curtis has strong views; they need a voice. Dwayne has a unique point of view; it needs a voice. Maria is full of love for her son; it needs a voice. Finally, Elizabeth is full of potential; that, too, needs a voice.
I only have time for this short letter, but I hope that I find you well. I will share more later, as the learning continues.
The most important influence in my life has been my family. When I examine myself, I see that my most important character traits come from my home life: determination and pride in myself. These values make me who I am, and they are an invaluable legacy from my Italian-American ancestors.
My grandfather came to the United States from Italy and began working as a carpenter. He started with nothing, and my father grew up without new toys or clothes. When I was a young child, my parents and I lived in my grandfather’s house, and my father and grandfather worked together to build their carpentry business. My father used to tell me that no matter where you began in life, you could always make your life better through hard work. His determination served as an example for me. I saw his hard work pay off when the business began to grow, and I applied myself to school and learning the violin with the same determination. I see my achievements as an extension of my father and grandfather’s hard work, which taught me the determination I need to succeed.
Determination is only one gift my parents have given me. My mother taught me to take pride in myself and my heritage. In the afternoons, when my mother cooks dinner, she talks with me about Italy. She tells me her memories associated with the different dishes that she makes and stories about her family. She also talks with me about art and Italian culture. In turn, I tell my mother about my life and my feelings. Through her support and through her stories, I have become more confident in myself, and I see my relationship with Italy’s beautiful culture.
My family and my heritage have had a great impact on my life. My experience with my family has made me realize that family is important to every individual. Each person learns unique lessons from his or her cultural heritage. As I move out into the world, I hope to share the value of my culture with others and learn about others’ cultures as well.
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